We believe that when trust is broken, healing is possible —

but it is never guaranteed.

Perspective & Clarity: Healing After Betrayal

We look to provide objective, compassionate, and honest guidance for individuals and couples navigating the complex aftermath of infidelity — helping them understand the path to forgiveness, rebuild trust or find clarity when reconciliation isn’t possible.

This is a very delicate and emotional space so we offer perspective and no judgement. This isn’t about blame; this is about the power of understanding, forgiveness and rebuilding (if it is within reach for you).

We believe that some relationships can and should survive infidelity — but only if both people are willing to face the truth, take responsibility, and do the hard work of rebuilding.

We believe that not every relationship should survive betrayal — and there is dignity, strength, and wisdom in knowing when to walk away.

We believe in offering clear, compassionate, and honest perspective — without judgment, false hope, or pressure.

Our Services

  • Consultation and Understanding

    In this session, our objective is to gain a comprehensive understanding of your situation and provide you with the necessary resources to support you throughout your journey in your current or previous relationship. We encourage you to maintain an open and honest demeanor, fostering a trusting environment for the process. Upon successful completion of this session, you have the flexibility to continue with either one-on-one or couple sessions, without any specific requirements or minimum session count. This space is dedicated to fostering open communication, honesty, and collaboration, enabling you to gain a well-rounded perspective from an objective yet knowledgeable source.

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  • Trust and Perspective (1:1)

    These sessions are designed to facilitate deeper one-on-one discussions of your current situation and relationship. During these sessions, we will delve into your relationship, employing direct and thought-provoking questions to foster a comprehensive understanding. Honesty and openness are essential in these sessions, as they create a judgment-free environment where transparency is crucial for us to provide an objective perspective on your relationship’s current state. These sessions are not intended to assign blame or seek validation; rather, they are focused on gaining a deeper understanding of your perspective and providing insights and viewpoints that can assist you in making informed decisions regarding your future and the state of your relationship.

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  • Trust and Perspective Sessions (Couple)

    These sessions are structured to facilitate a couples’ discussion of your current situation and relationship. We will conduct a comprehensive exploration of your relationship, employing direct and thought-provoking inquiries. Honesty and openness are paramount in this process. It is important to remember that this environment is devoid of judgment and transparency is fundamental for us to provide the most objective assessment of your relationship and its current state. These sessions are not intended to assign blame or fault. Rather, our objective is to foster a deeper comprehension of each other’s perspectives. We will also evaluate the possibility of repairing the relationship or whether it is time to conclude it respectfully and amicably.

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Contact Us

We believe that when trust is broken, healing is possible — but it is never guaranteed.

Infidelity Perspectives provides expert guidance to help individuals facing infidelity dilemmas in their relationships. We offer professional support to aid in the decision-making process of whether to resolve or move on.

If your relationship has or is experiencing infidelity and you want to speak to someone who will listen, understand and provide perspective without judgement, reach out to us and we are willing to listen. Let us see how we can provide perspective and clarity in your relationship.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • We provide both individual and couples sessions.

    All of our sessions are conducted virtually to ensure privacy and safety. We value your decision to maintain privacy during any/every session and anonymity is understood and accepted. We will collaborate with you to select the virtual video platform that best suits your preferences. Depending on the session, these can be one-on-one or group/couples sessions. It is important to note that the primary objective of these sessions is to foster open and transparent communication.

    This space is intended to be a safe haven, free from judgment and criticism.

  • To initiate our services, we conduct an introductory Consultation and Understanding session to establish expectations and comprehensively assess your situation and relationship. During this session, we outline the assistance we can provide on your journey in your current or previous relationship. We recommend that you be prepared to be open, honest, and willing to trust the process.

    Should you decide to proceed with our discussions, we offer Trust and Perspective sessions where we delve deeper into your relationship. In these sessions (the number of sessions will be tailored to your goals and objectives), it becomes your turn to share your story and situation in detail. We will listen attentively, ask numerous questions, including potentially uncomfortable questions and provide our perspective on what we have heard. It is essential to recognize that this is not therapy but rather an objective viewpoint from an individual who has experienced infidelity and emerged victorious. In certain cases, the most objective observer is an outsider who is not personally involved in your situation.

    Our primary objective is to assist you in gaining clarity, comprehending your emotions and providing you with the necessary information to make the most informed decision for yourself and your relationship.

    We do not offer advice; instead, we offer perspective.

  • Although we lack formal therapeutic training, we would like to clarify that our role is not therapeutic in nature. We are individuals with extensive knowledge of infidelity, having personally experienced or witnessed various aspects of the situation. Our insights are derived from our personal experiences. However, it is crucial to acknowledge that we do not assume the position of experts. Instead, we utilize our knowledge and perspective to offer valuable information and support in enabling you to make informed decisions.

    We believe that by providing objective listening and drawing upon our experience in your current circumstances, we can offer you an objective perspective that may assist you in making informed choices regarding any potential next steps in your relationship.

  • Advice is a recommendation. Based on the information provided and research, someone providing advice essentially states that they believe a particular course of action or decision should be made. We do not want to be in the position of advising you on what you need to do for your relationship.

    Perspective is different. When you share your information, as we know nothing else, we understand it objectively and only within that context. The more you share, the more context we have to share our perspective on what you have shared with us. In topics like these, it is very easy to let emotions drive your decision. Our perspective takes emotions out of the equation because we are not vested in your decision.

    The decision is ultimately yours. What we do offer is a very different and objective view of your situation that you may not have considered, understood, or even known. We listen to your story in ways you cannot hear yourself. We are the advocate of a different viewpoint, a varied perspective that you may or may not agree with but provides you with an additional decision point (or points) you likely never considered. This is what we provide: additional perspectives needed to help you make the best decision for you.

  • We hold all of our sessions virtually. We understand this can be a very touchy and sensitive subject so we 100% respect your right to privacy. This is also a matter of physical and emotional safety. This ensures that all parties are comfortable speaking about these delicate topics in an environment that is comfortable for each party involved.


  • Over the past three decades, we have conducted extensive research on infidelity, providing us with a comprehensive understanding of its dynamics. Unlike therapeutic interventions, our role is not to offer advice. Instead, we serve as impartial listeners, assisting you in gaining a new perspective on your situation. By presenting objective information, we empower you to fully comprehend all aspects of your relationship before making a decision.

    We firmly believe that this approach, characterized by objective reasoning and emotional detachment, offers the most valuable information a person can receive.